< shift/library / emotional

Random Acts of Kindness Practice

emotional · easy · 2-10 minutes per act

What is Random Acts of Kindness Practice?

Perform one deliberate act of kindness daily — for a stranger, colleague, friend, or family member. Research shows that GIVING kindness boosts the giver's happiness more than receiving it. Kindness is literally antidepressant, and the prescription is free.

Is there evidence for it?

EVIDENCEstrong

How do you do Random Acts of Kindness Practice?

  1. 1.Each day, do one intentional kind act: pay for someone's coffee, write a thank-you note, help a colleague, compliment a stranger, leave a generous tip, text an old friend
  2. 2.Vary your acts: mix big and small, strangers and loved ones, material and emotional. Variety prevents the 'kindness fatigue' that happens when you repeat the same gesture
  3. 3.Notice how YOU feel after each act. Most people report a 'helper's high' — a genuine mood boost that lasts hours. This is the release of oxytocin and serotonin
  4. 4.For extra impact: do anonymous kindness (pay for the person behind you in line, leave a note for a coworker). Anonymous giving is even more satisfying than recognized giving
  5. 5.Track for 30 days. Sonja Lyubomirsky's research shows that people who perform 5 acts of kindness per week report significantly higher wellbeing. Even 1 per day transforms your baseline mood

How long does it take?

2-10 minutes per act.

Is it hard to start?

easy.

Source: Sonja Lyubomirsky (The How of Happiness), Dunn et al. (2008, Science — spending on others), helper's high research
emotional · relationships · depression · habits · confidence
> find what fits you

Related in emotional

Emotional Granularity PracticeBuilding a precise emotional vocabulary to replace vague feelings ('bad', 'stressed') with specific emotion...Pennebaker Expressive Writing ProtocolA structured 4-day writing intervention where you write about your deepest thoughts and feelings regarding a...Journaling FrameworksStructured journaling methods beyond free-writing — including morning pages, evening reviews, expressive...Co-Regulation in RelationshipsCo-regulation is the process by which one person's calm, regulated nervous system helps another person...Values Affirmation ExerciseA brief self-affirmation intervention where you write about your most important personal values and why they...EMDR Self-Tapping (Butterfly Hug)A simplified self-administered version of EMDR therapy: cross your arms over your chest and alternate tapping...

> everything in emotional

This is one entry from the library Shift matches against. It is general information, not advice about you, and nothing on this page came from anyone's conversation.