Gratitude Visit (Seligman's Most Powerful Exercise)

What is Gratitude Visit (Seligman's Most Powerful Exercise)?

Write a 300-word letter of gratitude to someone who changed your life but you never properly thanked. Then visit them and read it aloud. In Seligman's research, this produced the largest happiness boost of ANY positive psychology intervention — lasting 3+ months.

Is there evidence for it?

How do you do Gratitude Visit (Seligman's Most Powerful Exercise)?

1. 1.Think of someone alive who did something that changed your life for the better and whom you've never properly thanked: a teacher, mentor, parent, coach, friend, boss
2. 2.Write them a specific, detailed letter (about 300 words): what they did, how it affected your life path, and what it means to you now. Be concrete, not generic
3. 3.Arrange to visit them in person (tell them you want to catch up — don't reveal the letter). If distance makes this impossible, do it over video call
4. 4.When you see them: tell them you have something you'd like to read. Read the letter out loud, making eye contact. Let yourself be emotional — this is supposed to be deeply moving
5. 5.Seligman's research (2005): the gratitude visit produced the single largest increase in happiness scores of any intervention tested — AND the effects lasted 3+ months. One visit. Lasting change

How long does it take?

1-2 hours to write, 1 hour for the visit.

Is it hard to start?

hard.

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