Positive Discipline Family Meetings

What is Positive Discipline Family Meetings?

Jane Nelsen's Positive Discipline approach, rooted in Alfred Adler's individual psychology, centers family meetings as the primary tool for building cooperation, problem-solving skills, and belonging. Research shows that families who hold regular meetings report fewer behavioral problems, better communication, and children with stronger executive function skills. The meeting structure ensures every family member — including young children — has a voice.

Is there evidence for it?

How do you do Positive Discipline Family Meetings?

1. 1.Schedule a fixed weekly time (15-30 min) that the whole family can attend — make it non-negotiable and keep it brief
2. 2.Follow this structure: (1) Compliments — each person appreciates something about each other family member
3. 3.(2) Review old business — check on solutions from previous meetings, adjust if needed
4. 4.(3) New business — review the posted agenda (anyone can add items during the week). Focus on solutions, not blame
5. 5.(4) Plan something fun — end with a family activity or dessert to create positive association with the meeting format

How long does it take?

15-30 min/week.

Is it hard to start?

easy.

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