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Screen Time Family Contract

parenting · medium · 1 hour for initial contract, quarterly 30-min reviews

What is Screen Time Family Contract?

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends collaborative media plans rather than top-down screen time rules. Research shows that children who participate in creating their own screen time rules follow them more consistently. A family screen time contract — co-created and signed by all family members, including parents — establishes shared norms and removes daily negotiation battles around devices.

Is there evidence for it?

EVIDENCEmoderate

How do you do Screen Time Family Contract?

  1. 1.Hold a family meeting specifically about screen time — let children voice what they value most (which shows, which games)
  2. 2.Co-create rules together using AAP guidelines as a framework: no screens during meals, homework first, no screens in bedrooms at night, age-appropriate time limits
  3. 3.Parents must follow the same rules — children respect screen limits when they see adults modeling them
  4. 4.Include 'screen-free zones' (dining table, bedrooms) and 'screen-free times' (first hour after school, 1 hour before bed)
  5. 5.Post the signed contract visibly. Review and renegotiate every 3 months as children mature and demonstrate responsibility

How long does it take?

1 hour for initial contract, quarterly 30-min reviews.

Is it hard to start?

medium.

Source: American Academy of Pediatrics, Family Media Plan (2016); Radesky & Christakis, Pediatrics (2016)
parenting · screen-time · contract · family · AAP · digital-wellness · negotiation
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