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DBT Emotional Regulation Skills

emotional · medium · 15-20 min/day for skill practice

What is DBT Emotional Regulation Skills?

Evidence-based skills from Dialectical Behavior Therapy for managing intense emotions, including the TIPP technique for crisis moments and the ACCEPTS skill for distress tolerance.

Is there evidence for it?

EVIDENCEstrong

How do you do DBT Emotional Regulation Skills?

  1. 1.Learn TIPP for emotional emergencies: Temperature (splash ice water on face or hold ice cubes to trigger the dive reflex), Intense exercise (sprint, jump, push-ups for 10 min), Paced breathing (inhale 4 counts, exhale 6-8 counts), Paired muscle relaxation (tense and release each muscle group)
  2. 2.Practice ACCEPTS for distress tolerance: Activities (engage in a task), Contributing (help someone), Comparisons (recall times you handled worse), Emotions (watch something funny to shift state), Pushing away (visualize putting the problem in a box temporarily), Thoughts (count, puzzle, recite lyrics), Sensations (hold ice, smell something strong)
  3. 3.Build an emotional regulation toolkit: rate your emotion 0-10, identify the emotion name, check if the emotion fits the facts, and decide if you want to act on it or use opposite action
  4. 4.Practice opposite action: when an emotion urges you toward unhelpful behavior (e.g., anger urges aggression), deliberately do the opposite (speak gently, take space) to change the emotional trajectory
  5. 5.Create a personalized crisis survival plan card: list your top 3 TIPP skills, 3 ACCEPTS strategies, and 3 support contacts to carry with you

How long does it take?

15-20 min/day for skill practice.

Is it hard to start?

medium.

Source: Marsha Linehan PhD (developer of DBT, 1980s-90s); DBT Skills Training Manual; McLean Hospital; extensive RCT evidence base
dbt · emotional-regulation · tipp · distress-tolerance · crisis-management · opposite-action · marsha-linehan
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